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Ideologically Motivated Sexual Grooming

Published on 22 July 2025

Across diverse societies, coercion often hides behind cultural norms, religious expectations, legal systems, and gendered power structures. This book exposes a disturbing but overlooked form of abuse: ideologically motivated sexual grooming – the manipulation of women and girls from religious minorities for both sexual exploitation and coerced religious conversion.

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Through case studies from three parts of the world, the book examines how this phenomenon unfolds across different faiths and contexts. The stories shared reveal a consistent pattern: women from minority backgrounds are sometimes targeted not only because of gender but also because of their religious identity.

This book is not a critique of interfaith relationships or religious belief. It does, nonetheless, interrogate whether there is an ideological driver behind men’s insistence on women converting, even when the legal system does not require it. In all the cases of the women whose stories are told here, the same question arises: If there is mutual love and respect, why is there such emphasis on – and indeed glorification of – the conversion of the women concerned from minority to majority religion?

Ideologically Motivated Sexual Grooming is an urgent call to recognise, understand, and address a subtle but devastating form of gender-based violence – and to create conditions where all women, regardless of faith, can live, love, and believe freely.

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This book contains material of a highly sensitive nature, including accounts of sexual, physical, and mental abuse, and other forms of violence, which may be upsetting.

A man’s hand reaches down from the top-left of the cover to pass a mobile phone to a woman’s hand angled up from the base. The background is black, patterned by large, red eyes with black pupils. The phone screen displays three texts from the man to the woman. They read: Call me. Now. You’re mine. You belong to me.
Front cover of Ideologically Motivated Sexual Grooming.

Table of contents

Chapter 1: Introduction, by Mariz Tadros and Grant Sinnamon

Chapter 2: Understanding the Characteristics of Sexual Grooming and Individual Vulnerability to Sexual Predation, by Grant Sinnamon

Chapter 3: Ideological Grooming and Forced Conversion of Hindu Women in Pakistan, by Abira Ashfaq and Seema Rana Maheshwary

Chapter 4: Ideologically Motivated Sexual Grooming in Pakistan: The Phenomenon, Context, and Institutions, by Raja M. Ali Saleem and Mary James Gill

Chapter 5: Of Her Own Accord? Making Sense of Egypt’s Coptic Women Gone Missing, by Mariz Tadros

Chapter 6: Gendered Trauma of Boko Haram, by Fatima Abdullahi Suleiman and Prince Charles Dickson

Chapter 7: Sexual and Ideological Grooming in Nigeria: Untold Stories of Coercion and Complicity, by Oluwafunmilayo Josephine Para-Mallam

Chapter 8: The ‘Protection’ of Women and ‘the Vulnerable’ in Contemporary India, by M. Sudhir Selvaraj and Meghana Choukkar

Chapter 9: Conclusion, by Mariz Tadros and Grant Sinnamon

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Tadros, M. and Sinnamon, G. (eds) (2025) Ideologically Motivated Sexual Grooming, Brighton: Institute of Development Studies, DOI: 10.19088/IDS.2025.011

Authors

Mariz Tadros

Director (CREID)

Founder and Director, and Clinical Psychologist, Bela Menso Brain and Behaviour Centre

Associate Professor of Practice, Habib University

Human rights defender and development practitioner

Independent researcher

Executive Director, Center for Law and Justice

Fellow, King Abdullah Bin Abdulaziz International Centre for Interreligious and Intercultural Dialogue and Executive Director, Integrated Community Development Initiatives

Team Lead, The Tattaaunawa Roundtable Initiative and Peacebuilding Expert, Peace Insight

National Coordinator, Christian Women for Excellence & Empowerment in Nigerian Society, and Director of Studies (2021–25), National Institute for Policy and Strategic Studies

Assistant Professor, Peace Studies and International Development, University of Bradford, and Research Associate, Centre for Asian Studies in Africa, University of Pretoria

Independent journalist and Research Affiliate, King’s India Institute, King’s College London

Publication details

published by
Institute of Development Studies
doi
10.19088/IDS.2025.011
isbn
978-1-80470-272-7
language
en

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